Dating, but for the version of you that's done pretending.
A structured assessment, scored across 9 relational dimensions, unlocks every match. We weight emotional regulation and conflict repair more than your selfies.
"Seeks a partner who embraces co-regulation, respects independence, and is actively healing from codependent patterns."
Shared with member consent after therapist reviewTherapy-informed matching that unlocks meaningful connections.
Every step includes reflection prompts and guardrails around codependency, emotional availability, and readiness for shared growth.
Begin with deep reflection
Complete our therapist designed questionnaire exploring relationship patterns and growth areas.
Receive professional insight
Every profile receives individual attention from our network of licensed relationship therapists. They identify key compatibility factors, potential growth areas, and provide insights that inform your matching journey.
Discover curated matches
View hand selected introductions based on deep compatibility, not algorithms alone.
Connect with intention
Our platform encourages slower, more intentional connection. Features like guided conversation prompts, relationship milestone tracking, and optional check-ins help nurture genuine bonds.
Begin with deep reflection
Complete our therapist designed questionnaire exploring relationship patterns and growth areas.
Receive professional insight
Every profile receives individual attention from our network of licensed relationship therapists. They identify key compatibility factors, potential growth areas, and provide insights that inform your matching journey.
Discover curated matches
View hand selected introductions based on deep compatibility, not algorithms alone.
Connect with intention
Our platform encourages slower, more intentional connection. Features like guided conversation prompts, relationship milestone tracking, and optional check-ins help nurture genuine bonds.
Built with licensed relationship therapists
“DatEQ gives gives windows into a persons' real life values, and what it might actually feel like to build a relationship together using more sophisticated questioning giving our clients a partner who fits into their world. t.”
“Dating with intention, grounded in real insight into your patterns, changes everything. I’m excited to help those seeking true and lasting (not perfect) connection.”
“What I appreciate about this approach is that it brings a level of intentionality to dating that we rarely see. When individuals have the opportunity to identify their love languages, attachment wounds, and personality patterns before being matched, it shifts dating from a reactive experience to a more conscious one”
Values that keep intentional dating grounded.
We pair lived experience with clinical guidance so every connection is rooted in mutual care, consent, and emotional safety.
Therapist Reviewed Profiles
Every profile is reviewed by licensed relationship therapists who provide insights on compatibility, communication styles, and relationship readiness.
Quality Over Quantity
Receive a curated selection of deeply compatible matches instead of endless swiping. Each introduction is meaningful and intentional.
Relationship Science
Our matching approach combines attachment theory, communication research, and therapeutic frameworks to identify lasting compatibility.
Safe Community
Our therapist-reviewed approach creates a community of emotionally mature individuals committed to healthy, respectful connections.
Therapist Reviewed Profiles
Every profile is reviewed by licensed relationship therapists who provide insights on compatibility, communication styles, and relationship readiness.
Quality Over Quantity
Receive a curated selection of deeply compatible matches instead of endless swiping. Each introduction is meaningful and intentional.
Relationship Science
Our matching approach combines attachment theory, communication research, and therapeutic frameworks to identify lasting compatibility.
Safe Community
Our therapist-reviewed approach creates a community of emotionally mature individuals committed to healthy, respectful connections.
We match partners ready to nurture secure, interdependent love.
Take the assessment, receive a therapist review, and unlock curated introductions with people committed to relationship growth.